Creative Thoughts

Don’t Be A Perfectionist

Trying to be perfect takes too much time and effort. It creates too
much stress and is impossible anyway. Instead, strive to relax at
the 90% level. This is the personal mastery level. Following the
Action Principles, reaching the 90% level in most of your financial
and social endeavors will be something that you don’t even have
to think about. It will happen through your persistence,
determination, hard work and nice personality. Right now, learn
about the income and the lifestyle level of those in the top 10% of
your profession. If you aren’t content earning more than 90% of
your coworkers, choose another profession. It is possible to try
too hard in business, exercise and relationships. Overwork can
produce stress and anxiety, which is the opposite of the inner
peace you seek. Your best is good enough. Live to a high standard,
not to an impossible obsession.

From http://www.Success.org

The Flame of Friendship.

I joined a very nice meme just now. I just got the time now, but I had been wanting to join on it before but I never had the time.

What is Tuesday Toot?

This Meme will be every Tuesday and the idea behind it would be that you get to “Toot Your Own Horn”.

What does that mean?
Well, it means every Tuesday, you get to post an accomplishment that you have done. As moms sometimes, we are quick in praising our kids and others about their accomplishments but we are “shy” when it comes to our achievements so … here is your chance.

Here is my very first entry:

My mother brought me up to be spoiled. She loved me and my sister so much, that she would let us have our way. I didn’t know that was wrong. The result? I grew up to be tensed and nervous whenever I don’t get my way. I have to have my way in everything. CLICK HERE TO READ THE FULL ENTRY, I posted it on my newest blog, entitled My Verdict and it has something to do with being relaxed and learning to go with the flow.

I wonder if I will be like this too? hehe. No, not me. I know how to control myself and to have discipline when it comes to blogging. I always watch out if I’m already being addicted on it. If I can observe that I’m putting too much time on it than usual, I would snap back to reality and do some changes. I really don’t wanna be too addicted, which is the nature of blogging – addictive. Agree? yeah, so guys please do keep it in moderation. One post a day is okay. Don’t do it too much!

What’s up with me?

1. I’m at the internet cafe near our home, to check on my blog, to check for opps, to check my favorite blogs. Will just stay here for an hour and then go home.

2. At home with my little girl. She’s a crybaby for now. hehe, she always cry, because she is in the teething stage. She is so smart and she can easily imitate anyone. She knows how to clap, to imitate sounds of cats and kittens in our home. She can raise her hand up high if someone says darna. She can put her hand on her ear if someone says hello. She can close and open her hands. She can laugh, make you smile and make you go crazy because she moves a lot. hehe. that’s my baby girl, baby bless.

3. keeping my eye fixed on my one goal: to have a sari-sari store. sticking to my action principle that we will save and not touched my husband’s earnings.

4. eating “binignit”. i don’t know what’s the english term for that. my mom cooked it.

5. considering about getting a loan from lbc bank. interested in the idea.

Photo Courtesy of Yogz Ve

Keep steadily before you the fact that all true success depends at last upon yourself.
THEODORE T. HUNGER

It’s my day off today, but I’ve got nothing important to do at home, and I need to do some updates on this blog. Since I don’t have a pc at home, I went to the office to do it there. My friend said, isn’t it your day off? And I said yes, but I need to do some work. What work? She said. I went on and told her I have a blog to maintain. I told her it’s just some sort of a hobby. She then went on and said, what? your not gonna get anything out of blogging. What’s the use? This reaction shocked me, but I kept mum. I don’t wanna waste time in explaining to her why I blog. Every minute I have is valuable, and I don’t want to waste it to someone who just simply can’t understand because they won’t understand. At the back of my mom, I laughed and told myself, hmm….you just don’t know what you’ve been missing because you are not blogging. hehehe. I wanted to tell her that it’s an accomplishment and it would help you keep track of your life. I wanted to tell her that it could improve one’s writing skills. I wanted to tell her that she is wrong that blogging is useless. I wanted to tell her that I am earning from it. I know bloggers out there would agree with me. Blogging is a great part of my life. Not only because I earn from it, but because it makes me happy and it keeps me updated with what’s going on with my life. It’s like an online journal. Anyway, it’s not my loss. I don’t have to explain to anyone and I simply don’t care if they are not interested.

Photo Courtesy of Pirate Lady

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attiude. THOMAS JEFFERSON

This is a tag from a blogger friend, Imelda. Thanks sis, it’s been some time I’ve seen you here and I do apologize if this is late. Better late than never. Hehe! I hope guys you will not be tired of tagging me because I do it late, but don’t worry if you give me a tag, i’ll really do it even if its late already.

Here are the rules:
1. Mention the person who tagged you and create a link back to them.
2. Copy-paste the traits for all the twelve months (see below).
3. Pick your month of birth.
4. Highlight the traits that apply to you.
5. Tag 12 people and let them know by visiting their blogs and leaving a comment for them.
6. Let the person who tagged you know when you’ve done it!

The Twelve Months

JANUARY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Ambitious and serious. Loves to teach and be taught. Always looking at people’s flaws and weaknesses. Likes to criticize. Hardworking and productive. Smart, neat and organized. Sensitive and has deep thoughts. Knows how to make others happy. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Rather reserved. Highly attentive. Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds. Romantic but has difficulties expressing love. Loves children. Loyal. Has great social abilities yet easily jealous. Very stubborn and money cautious.

FEBRUARY: Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexy. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest and loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends but rarely shows it. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizes dreams and hopes.Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.

MARCH: Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate. Shy and reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Loves to serve others. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Observant and assesses others. Revengeful . Loves to dream and fantasize. Loves traveling. Loves attention. Hasty decisions in choosing partners. Loves home decors. Musically talented. Loves special things. Moody. (Basically all applied to me except “hasty decisions in choosing partners… LOL!)

APRIL: Active and dynamic. Decisive and hasty but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people’s problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Emotional. Aggressive. Hasty. Good memory. Moving. Motivates oneself and others. Sickness usually of the head and chest. Sexy in a way that only their lover can see.

MAY: Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally this. Firm Standpoint. Needs no motivation. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain) . Loves to dream. Strong clairvoyance. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck . Good imagination. Good physical. Weak breathing . Loves literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike being at home. Restless. Not having many children . Hardworking. High spirited. Spendthrift .

JUNE: Thinks far with vision. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay. Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Able to show character. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. Loves to dress up. Easily bored. Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to recover when hurt. Brand conscious. Executive. Stubborn.

JULY: Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Likes to be quiet. Homely person. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Prone to having stomach and dieting problems. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.

AUGUST: Loves to joke. Attractive. Suave and caring. Brave and fearless. Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too generous and egoistic. Takes high pride in oneself. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered. Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends.

SEPTEMBER: Suave and compromising. Careful, cautious and organized. Likes to point out people’s mistakes. Likes to criticize. Stubborn. Quiet but able to talk well. Calm and cool. Kind and sympathetic. Concerned and detailed. Loyal but not always honest. Does work well. Very confident. Sensitive. Good memory. Clever and knowledgeable. Loves to look for information. Must control oneself when criticizing. Able to motivate oneself. Understanding. Fun to be around. Secretive. Loves leisure and traveling. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up feelings. Very choosy, especially in relationships. System at (This really apply to me besides quiet… hehehe coz I am not that quiet person).

OCTOBER: Loves to chat. Loves those who loves them. Loves to take things at the center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn’t pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care of what others think. Emotional. Decisive. Strong clairvoyance. Loves to travel, the arts and literature. Touchy and easily jealous. Concerned. Loves outdoors. Just and fair. Spendthrift. Easily influenced. Easily loses confidence. Loves children.

NOVEMBER: Has a lot of ideas. Difficult to fathom. Thinks forward. Unique and brilliant. Extraordinary ideas. Sharp thinking. Fine and strong clairvoyance. Can become good doctors. Dynamic in personality. Secretive. Inquisitive. Knows how to dig secrets. Always thinking. Less talkative but amiable. Brave and generous. Patient. Stubborn and hard-hearted. If there is a will, there is a way. Determined. Never give up. Hardly becomes angry unless provoked. Loves to be alone. Thinks differently from others. Sharp-minded. Motivates oneself. Does not appreciate praises. High-spirited. Well-built and tough. Deep love and emotions. Romantic. Uncertain in relationships. Homely. Hardworking. High abilities. Trustworthy. Honest and keeps secrets. Not able to control emotions. Unpredictable.

DECEMBER:Loyal and generous. Sexy. Patriotic. Active in games and interactions. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Loves to socialize. Loves praises. Loves attention. Loves to be loved. Honest and trustworthy. Not pretending. Short tempered. Changing personality. Not egotistic. Take high pride in oneself. Hates restrictions. Loves to joke. Good sense of humor. Logical.

HERE IS MY BIRTH MONTH AND MY TRAITS
AUGUST: Loves to joke. Attractive (walang kokontra) . Suave and caring ( korek kadyan). Brave and fearless. Firm and has leadership qualities. Knows how to console others. Too generous and egoistic. Takes high pride in oneself. Thirsty for praises. Extraordinary spirit. Easily angered (don’t provoke me, grrr). Angry when provoked. Easily jealous. Observant. Careful and cautious. Thinks quickly. Independent thoughts. Loves to lead and to be led. Loves to dream. Talented in the arts, music and defense. Sensitive but not petty. Poor resistance against illnesses. Learns to relax. Hasty and trusty. Romantic. Loving and caring. Loves to make friends.

I am passing this tag to:
1. Abby
2. Sexymom
3. Florence
4. Shengy
5. Petra
6. Scottprincess
7. Sasha
8. Rosemarie
9. Marc
10. Andrik
11. Maya
12. Mariuca

Myspace Hello Comments
Hello guys, good day to all of you. I am tired for now, I couldn’t stay longer for an hour anymore, just like how I used to do after my shift. I am so tired. I had been multitasking, on my work. Taking calls and peeking at blogs and writing some post whenever I get the time. We had a lot of calls for today even if its weekend. Sigh* We really need more people here. I am going home now, and tomorrow, yipeeee, its going to be my day off. Tomorrow and Monday. So, I’ll be back on Tuesday to be with you again. I’m not sure if I will be able to check on this blog. Perhaps, no. I need to be home and be with my darling (baby bless). Lately, I had less time for her. I’ve been so busy with work and with finding ways on how I can earn money. As mentioned, I am now focusing on our goal of starting a sari-sari store. We’re far to go, but I’ll be updating you soon if I get closer to it. That’s why I really have to write and write posts. Hopefully, the offer will keep coming so I will have more savings. I’m still starting to earn now, but hopefully, it will keep on flowing. Thank you God for all these blessings. Thank you to all those who visited, commented and left messages on my shout box. I hope you do enjoy blogging. But most importantly, I hope you do enjoy your life. Have a great weekend to all.