Creative Thoughts

Here are new photos of Lovie direct from her blog. Well, what I like about her is that she keeps her fans updated by posting her newest pics. And I just love her. Good thing the number of calls is not that much, so I still have the time to download this pics and update you guys. I’m sure you would love it too, so just sharing it with you.

A lot of people are addicted with Spiderman. He has this strange power like that of a real spider. Anyone who gets caught on his spider traps is in great danger. Every one knows how the ordinary guy turned out to be a very powerful hero who has a good heart for everyone. Well, most guys adore him and want to be like Spiderman. I haven’t been a follower of that movie, but still, every one knows him. I’m not really that addicted to superheros during my early years. For me, that was a good thing because superheros are not real. The real superheros are real people without powers, plainly ordinary people who have concern for others and who would go out of their way just to reach out. For me, my superhero is my mom. Who is your superhero?

One of my goals right now, is to own a computer. I would go for a simple desktop than a pricey notebook computer. It’s wiser to do so. Laptops are of course more costly than desktops. But if we think about practicality, I would go for laptop. Well, If we have money, no doubt I would opt for a laptop. You can bring it anywhere you like. You can just charge it and let it run on battery. I am still saving for it. I changed my mind. I was interested in buying it previously but I really tried to think about it and I decided that I will just save first for it, we might run out of money if I force it and go with my will to buy it. I don’t want that to happen. I know it can wait. I have found a pinoy site where there are lots of affordable computers. They will deliver it to you through LBC. I really like that site, cause the computers and other equipments are so affordable. I was so tempted so buy that affordable 2nd hand laptop at a cost of 9,900 pesos something plus the shipping. But, as I’ve said I’m saving the best for last. And I know God will grant the desires of my heart at the right time.

Yes, I had to let it go. You might think it’s something emotional, hehe. Not really. I’m just referring to my badge that shows my traffic rank from alexa. Yes, I have to let it go, cause I’m ashamed to show it to you. Hehe, I think it’s already on 2,000. This is very much understandable because of my lack of time for blogging for the previous month or so. As you can see, the decline from the number of posts from last month to now, is very obvious. I haven’t been visiting and commenting on other blogs as well. I haven’t returned the messages from those who commented on me. How can you expect to have a good stat? Anyway, blogging has actually caused me unnecessary stressed for the last months that I decided to take it slow. I love to write, but I don’t like the stress that comes along with it. Here’s how it is. I work 9 hours a day, from 6 am to 3 pm. I don’t have my own computer at home, so I have to stay if I want to blog. Staying for an hour or two, really makes me tired. Specially that I have to take care of baby when I come back home. So, that’s why I really tried to cut it down as I tried to make my life simpler and less stressful. My job is already stressful and I really don’t want to add more to that. Blogging is supposed to be fun and recreational, not a mundane and boring task. I need to make choices, and my choice is to focus on my life and on what’s really important. That just money and making a living, but learning how to be happy with what I have and with simple things that are free. You understand right? Well, i just want to say thank you to all those who still frequent my blog despite the lack of updates. Thank you guys and hopefully someday, I have more time for my blogs. I think that might take a long time, cause my plan to buy a computer will not push through. I want to save money for a small business of ours. *Sigh* That’s life. But still smiling.

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There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying things which are beyond the power of our will. EPICTETUS

Are you a person who make things happen or a person who wait for things to happen? Can you relate to the question. Over the time, I have been categorizing people based on the type of personality they have. If they are the ones who are agressive and would really do everything to make their wants and dreams come true, they fall on the first group.
This is a positive attribute because it can determine if a person willl become a successful or not. There are really people who won’t stop until their goals come true. If they can’t see opportunities they would create opportunities. Can you relate to what I’m talking? I could say this could be a great benefit to a person cause as well all know opportunities come and go. Some opportunities stay and could come back many times but there are also once in a lifetyme opportunities.

I’m looking at my ppp dashboard, and I can tell that the oppps are very fast. They could appear once and disappear in a few seconds or minutes. That’s how oppurtunities work too. If you don’t grab it at the moment, you might lose it forever.

But the problem with these aggressive type of people is that they tend to be perfectionist and too goal oriented. Sometimes, they tend to work on a lot of goals that they forget to stop and think about their lives. Sometimes they could do bad things just to make their goals a reality. Or they could be too stressed and pressured in life, trying to prove things to people.

On the other hand, there are people who just wait for things to happen. They accept whatever happens and they don’t have much dreams. If they have, its merely a wish but not exactly a goal. This could be a negative trait and I don’t have to explain why. I know you know, but on the other hand, this could be a positive thing as well. Easy or happy to go lucky persons tends to be more relaxed and happier in their lives. They tend to be more contented with what they have.

Well, both traits have good and bad. I think being a mixture of two is a good balance. Settings goals and working on things that you like is a very good thing, but you should know when to stop and give up. Being relaxed and happy is very much okay too, but be sure not to get too comfortable that you get bored with life and stop growing.

The secret is, find your balance.

Americans love the feeling of comfort and security. Unlike Filipinos who are just easy go lucky and has this “bahala na” attitude,wherein they just accept whatever it is that will happen. This could be a negative attitude but sometimes it could be positive too. But, I think this is the reason why most Filipinos are poor. Well, by the way, lets go back to the main intention of this post. As a proof that Americans really do love security most of them have life insurances. They don’t want to leave their family behind with debts or money problems. Insurances are a great help though. There are already a lot of online websites right now, who offer term life insurance. If you are considering to get one, it is important not to make rapid choices which might give you problems later on. Searched for the best insurance companies and get to compare their terms first for you to find the best deal.

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Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than an outward circumstances. BENJAMIN FRANK

One of our dreams is for us to have our own house someday. A simple yet beautiful house filled with love and happiness. Wow, that is the dream of anyone, I guess. A small and neat house would be perfect. Someday, if we would have a house, I would like to put up a small library where I will stock my collection of my favorite books. I want to make it a quiet place where I can plan and meditate and study about my life goals. I am a bookworm so that would be perfect. Ronel wants to have a recreational room where he will put all musical equipments like piano, guitar, drum and others. He’s a musical person and he really has a good sense of music. I admire his talent, but he’s not bragging about it. Well, I know there are a lot of things to consider in a house. It should also have a neat sala, furnitures, bedrooms, kitchen and bathroom. For the bathroom, bathroom lighting is very important. Now, lets add up love and harmony in all these and it should be a perfect abode. Isn’t it?

Right now, we are busy moving to a new place to live. It’s just a house for rent, but its near my workplace so we can save from transportation. I am also thinking about buying a computer right now. I got the approval of my family so that should be okay. I’m excited to have a computer and get back to my blog. Once that is realized, expect regular blog posts and visits from me. I will take blogging seriously this time. Yay, taking it to the next level. Good idea? Well, I just want to do what I love most. I’m excited for it. Hoping we can find an affordable computer. I’m thinking about subscribing to globe lines for our internet provider. Anyone who has an experience with them? I chose them cause its only 560 per month, so its really lesser than PLDT who charges 990 per month along with land line.