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Dear Brokenhearted
Ever since I have always loved to give out advice. My friends, tells me I’m good at it. I love to listen to a person’s burden so that they can have an outlet for release. Most of all, I want to contribute in making that person feel better, by saying the exact words that would clear his mind. I’ve been wanting to start a category, wherein I would be able to give out advices to people. This evening, when I came to work, and when I open my friendster email I got this message from one of my friendster friends, which encouraged me to start out a part of my blog solely for advices.
Here is what he wrote: (some parts have been edited/translated in english)
Halo guyz….fix me cause I’m totally broken huhuhu!! its really hurts so much……
…me and my girlfriend already broke up! she broke up with me without any reason at all.. im such a fool and a stupid…
(sakit jud sa girls if mapul.an ilisan dayon ka…)
I NEED ADVICE.
Dear Brokenhearted,
First of all, I would like to tell you that I admire you for having the courage to vent out what you feel. Most guys, would be ashamed to do that. I understand how you feel, and I’m glad to have the opportunity to share my advice to you. It’s good that your releasing your feelings and not just keeping it on yourself, which is not a good habit but commonly practice specifically by men, perhaps for fear of being laughed at. Releasing our emotions and sentiments is one way indeed of getting over with something. What I think about this, is that you should be strong and stand up, I know you can make it. She’s not the one giving you life. It’s not other people who can fix your broken heart, but only you and God. As to your girlfriend, who just left for no reason at all, that reflects her character. A woman like that, doesn’t deserve your tears. You will find a better person, who deserves your love and attention. As the song of Leah Salonga goes “Even if, you mean the whole wide world to me, I can forget you, wait and see. I can be strong even without you. I can’t waste my life forever hoping you’d come back to me, but deep inside I know I’l be waiting here for you.” So, you ought to remember that song, every time you feel the pain, and it will make you strong. Don’t come after her like you can’t live without her. When you would finally meet the right person, you will be thankful this girl left you behind. Move on, and heal your wounds. And never rush in a relationship again, just because you want someone to mend you. That’s what we call “panakip-butas”. Make sure, that when you love again, you are complete and whole. I myself, had to go through a lot of pain and disappointment in relationships before I finally met the man who DESERVES my love and loyalty. And lastly, don’t be afraid to be hurt because these pains will server as your teacher. It will teach you the truth of life and love. Goodluck to your life, and please don’t ever think of ending your life or something like that, just because of this. Your life is valuable, it’s a gift so treasure it. God Bless and I wish you the best of everything:)
If you want to get some advice from me too, you can email me at ctc_melody@hotmail.com, with the subject Dear Irish. 
