We woman have a tendency to be too much in love with our partners. I have learned and realized its not healthy. They say, those who fail the most in love are the intelligent ones who becomes dull when it comes to love.
Love is the most wonderful feeling you can ever have, but its not about fairy tales and happy endings. Love is the realization that you accept and love the whole being of a person despite his weaknesses, faults and shortcomings. We women can easily get too attached in a relationship and we tend to make our man, our “EVERYTHING”.

I guess, this story would be a good reminder for us to leave something for ourselves and not to give it all to our partners.

There was this girl who always dreamed of having someone…someone to hold…someone to lean on…someone to love… and someone to share the rest of her days with. Then suddenly out of nowhere, someone came along…someone that made her life worth living for…someone that made her feel complete…they were lost in their own world…staring deeply into each others eyes…sharing laughter and tears…but it didn’t end there. They had so many memories to look back on…through letters, to pictures, to trials and tribulations…nothing could tear them apart…till fate stepped in. There was the girl, lying on the ground crying in a river of tears…”How could this happen? How could her only love deceive her, was the love she gave him not enough? What did she do wrong? Then she stopped crying, wiped the last tear on her cheek and asked help from above…and soon she began to realize that after awhile a person will learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, then she will learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security, and then she learns that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises, and finally she would begin to accept her defeats with her head up and her eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child, then she would learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much… so the girl finally decided to plant her own garden and decorate her own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring her flowers, she then told herself, I can endure, I am strong. I have worth.

We should remember, that the greatest love of all is to be able to love ourselves. Yes, that is true. It is very difficult to do because we have this innate desire to be loved and cherish and valued. Whether you admit it or not, we have this longing for our man to appreciate us and give us special attention. But, he should not be your world. You should let him know that you can surely live without him, but your life would be much happier with him. Don’t let his head swell but showing you love him soooo much that you will do everything for him. Remain mysterious and he will chase you forever. and with that, i would like to end this post with a song, victims of love dedicated to

Victims of love

Our hearts have been to battle
Our souls have been to war
We’ve lost the will to carry on , we don’t believe no more
Oh why is it that we got it set
That this could never happen to us
How could it be . cause baby here we are

Victims of love are broken down unfair
So sad to see the debris
Scattered everywhere
Victims of love , still cannot believe
We are the victims of love
We cannot retreat

It used to be so easy , it used to be so good
We had an understanding that got misunderstood
I thought we are survivors and we’ll never go down
But now were just outsiders as our love
Comes stumbling down

Refrain

Bridge :

Maybe we played it a little bit to sure
And everything is hearts and roses
Now fate stand still and closed the door
And we were just left standing
Till we realized the ending
Why so near …
Where do we go from here …

Refrain