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There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying things which are beyond the power of our will. EPICTETUS

Are you a person who make things happen or a person who wait for things to happen? Can you relate to the question. Over the time, I have been categorizing people based on the type of personality they have. If they are the ones who are agressive and would really do everything to make their wants and dreams come true, they fall on the first group.
This is a positive attribute because it can determine if a person willl become a successful or not. There are really people who won’t stop until their goals come true. If they can’t see opportunities they would create opportunities. Can you relate to what I’m talking? I could say this could be a great benefit to a person cause as well all know opportunities come and go. Some opportunities stay and could come back many times but there are also once in a lifetyme opportunities.

I’m looking at my ppp dashboard, and I can tell that the oppps are very fast. They could appear once and disappear in a few seconds or minutes. That’s how oppurtunities work too. If you don’t grab it at the moment, you might lose it forever.

But the problem with these aggressive type of people is that they tend to be perfectionist and too goal oriented. Sometimes, they tend to work on a lot of goals that they forget to stop and think about their lives. Sometimes they could do bad things just to make their goals a reality. Or they could be too stressed and pressured in life, trying to prove things to people.

On the other hand, there are people who just wait for things to happen. They accept whatever happens and they don’t have much dreams. If they have, its merely a wish but not exactly a goal. This could be a negative trait and I don’t have to explain why. I know you know, but on the other hand, this could be a positive thing as well. Easy or happy to go lucky persons tends to be more relaxed and happier in their lives. They tend to be more contented with what they have.

Well, both traits have good and bad. I think being a mixture of two is a good balance. Settings goals and working on things that you like is a very good thing, but you should know when to stop and give up. Being relaxed and happy is very much okay too, but be sure not to get too comfortable that you get bored with life and stop growing.

The secret is, find your balance.

Americans love the feeling of comfort and security. Unlike Filipinos who are just easy go lucky and has this “bahala na” attitude,wherein they just accept whatever it is that will happen. This could be a negative attitude but sometimes it could be positive too. But, I think this is the reason why most Filipinos are poor. Well, by the way, lets go back to the main intention of this post. As a proof that Americans really do love security most of them have life insurances. They don’t want to leave their family behind with debts or money problems. Insurances are a great help though. There are already a lot of online websites right now, who offer term life insurance. If you are considering to get one, it is important not to make rapid choices which might give you problems later on. Searched for the best insurance companies and get to compare their terms first for you to find the best deal.

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Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than an outward circumstances. BENJAMIN FRANK

One of our dreams is for us to have our own house someday. A simple yet beautiful house filled with love and happiness. Wow, that is the dream of anyone, I guess. A small and neat house would be perfect. Someday, if we would have a house, I would like to put up a small library where I will stock my collection of my favorite books. I want to make it a quiet place where I can plan and meditate and study about my life goals. I am a bookworm so that would be perfect. Ronel wants to have a recreational room where he will put all musical equipments like piano, guitar, drum and others. He’s a musical person and he really has a good sense of music. I admire his talent, but he’s not bragging about it. Well, I know there are a lot of things to consider in a house. It should also have a neat sala, furnitures, bedrooms, kitchen and bathroom. For the bathroom, bathroom lighting is very important. Now, lets add up love and harmony in all these and it should be a perfect abode. Isn’t it?

Right now, we are busy moving to a new place to live. It’s just a house for rent, but its near my workplace so we can save from transportation. I am also thinking about buying a computer right now. I got the approval of my family so that should be okay. I’m excited to have a computer and get back to my blog. Once that is realized, expect regular blog posts and visits from me. I will take blogging seriously this time. Yay, taking it to the next level. Good idea? Well, I just want to do what I love most. I’m excited for it. Hoping we can find an affordable computer. I’m thinking about subscribing to globe lines for our internet provider. Anyone who has an experience with them? I chose them cause its only 560 per month, so its really lesser than PLDT who charges 990 per month along with land line.

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Men spend their lives in anticipations - in determining to be vastly happy at some period when they have time. But the present time has one advantage over other - it is our own. Past opportunities are gone, future have not come. We may lay in a stock of pleasures, as we would lay in a stock of wine; but if we defer the tasting of them too long, we shall find that both are soured by age. CHARLES CALEB COLTON

I hate it. I have a page rank already and it looks like ppp is giving more tasks which are available, but I haven’t been able to grab, cause its always gray. Huhuhuh. I want to cry, cause I saw one ooop which is still white, but when I click on reserve opp i was told that all posts have been reserved and it suddenly turned gray. My gosh, is that how fast people are grabbing oopps. I wonder if they are just staring at their computers to wait for these oopps to grab. hehehe. Anyway, I’ll keep watch more often. Hopefully, I would have even just one. Please? PPP?

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In the hopes of reaching the mooon men fail to see the flowers that blossom at their feet. ALBERT SCHEWEITZER

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Happiness does not consist in pastimes and amusements but in virtuous activities. ARISTOTLE